Saturday, August 20, 2011

forever wanting more....

It doesn't matter who you are or what you do, you will always want more. Always strive for more. Forever want what someone else has. Nothing will ever be good enough.
You could have all the money in the world but you won't be happy. You could have the "perfect" relationship but would still feel like something was missing. There will never be a time when you are utterly and completely content with your life. You will always wonder what if, what if I chose to do this instead I went down another path.

At the end of the day, be thankful and grateful for what you do have and not what you don't. There is no such thing as perfect, so stop searching for it.

Monday, May 30, 2011

Ups & Downs..

Its never going to be easy. All relationships require work. They all have their up and downs and sometimes the downs out weigh the ups. Sometimes it feels like its too much, sometimes you just don't know if you can go on. BUT if you really love a person, for who they are, for what they do, for what they believe in and they love you... you will pull through.. Its a hard fought battle.. but worth it in the end...

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

So what is a relationship?

We have all been in one at least once in our lives. But really you are probably in several relationships right now, you just don't know it. Who said a relationship is just between two people who are in love (or should be).
We have relationships with our friends, our family, our friends, we have relationships with our pets!

So what is a relationship?
According to the Oxford Dictionary it is this;
" Relationship.
  • the way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected:the study will assess the relationship between unemployment and political attitudes
  • the state of being connected by blood or marriage:they can trace their relationship to a common ancestor
  • the way in which two or more people or groups regard and behave towards each other:the landlord-tenant relationship she was proud of her good relationship with the staff
  • an emotional and sexual association between two people:she has a daughter from a previous relationship "
So I guess it's pretty spot on. How many relationships do you actually have...? Think about it.